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  • Preparation is Key

    Failure to prepare guarantees failure. Preparation generates confidence and boldness. Always over prepare. Continue reading

    Preparation is Key
  • Selective

    Everyone picks and chooses their world view.  And people often make exceptions for their own wrongdoing.  No one’s opinion is somehow more important than your own.  What you think of yourself is always more important that what others think of… Continue reading

    Selective
  • Patience

    The beauty of patience is unmatched.  The most beautiful results come from patiently preparing and planning for them.  In order to achieve what you want you cannot succeed by happenstance.  It comes with dedication and learning. Continue reading

    Patience
  • Prosper

    The best path is the one that is not morally reprehensible to you.  Never do things for the money if they are offensive to you. Continue reading

    Prosper
  • Through the Fire

    Well going through difficult situations is never easy of course.  But running away is never the answer.  All running does is stunt your ability to develop coping the skills required to handle life.  Going through the fire creates scars that… Continue reading

    Through the Fire
  • The Pushover

    Take Dan Pena’s “Snowflake” Test.  95% of people ARE pushovers.  Why? Continue reading

    The Pushover
  • Actions

    Pay no attention to what people say.  Focus on their actions.  Their actions reveal their true intentions.  Actions always speak louder than words. Continue reading

    Actions
  • Power

    Always remember that you have as much power as you choose to keep.  Do not give your power away to make peace, to be nice, or because you don’t want to be bothered.  You are powerful.  You are strong.  Keep… Continue reading

    Power
  • Do Your Own Research

    Nothing hurts more than when your “friend(s)” choose to believe lies about you from someone else.  This hurts especially when you know a brief investigation on their part, or even belief in you, would have revealed the truth.  The best… Continue reading

    Do Your Own Research
  • This Too Shall Pass

    Do you remember a moment of crises from childhood?  Do you remember a moment of crisis from a month ago, a year, five years, or even decades ago?  They were terrible right?  Yes, I know.  Yet, here you are in… Continue reading

    This Too Shall Pass