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  • No Excuses

    When it comes to what you need accept no excuses.  You are not to be dismissed as insignificant.  Some people will have to learn this lesson, from you, the hard way. Continue reading

    No Excuses
  • Oh the Guilt!

    Never feel guilty about taking time to care for yourself. Never. Continue reading

    Oh the Guilt!
  • Thankful

    What aspects of your life would you miss if they would suddenly disappear? Are you at risk of losing them? What can you do to keep them? Do it? Continue reading

    Thankful
  • Hypocrisy

    Always consider a person’s actions because pretty words are easily spoken.  Kind actions are harder to fake. Don’t be afraid to say no to such people. Continue reading

    Hypocrisy
  • Narcissist Management

    When someone is nasty first try love, then compassion, then distance. Sadhguru Continue reading

    Narcissist Management
  • Truth to Self

    Let no one dissuade you from doing what you know in your heart and mind makes you happy.  The choice is yours alone to make because only you will suffer the consequences. Continue reading

    Truth to Self
  • Run from Abuse

    At the first sign of abuse you’ve got to run. If you don’t the abuser will falsely believe that they have power over you. Take your power, your sanity, and your love and guard them closely. No one deserves to… Continue reading

    Run from Abuse
  • Not Common

    Common sense is a flower that doesn’t grow in everyone’s garden. Continue reading

    Not Common
  • Believe

    Stop wondering what other people may be thinking about you and believe what your instincts tell you about them.  You already know how what they think about you, you can feel it.  Stop second-guessing your own intuition and accept “the… Continue reading

    Believe
  • Self-Love

    If nothing else, you deserve love and affection.  You deserve it so much more because you do. There needn’t be a reason, an “excuse,” or a cause.  Being loved is an innate human need.  Remember that YOU must first show… Continue reading

    Self-Love