Stay away from those who clearly don’t practice what they preach.  Yet, it would benefit them if you do what they say.  It’s called gaslighting and they do it to cause you to doubt yourself.  Never ever doubt yourself. Continue reading

It’s easy to fall in love. What’s not easy is doing the work required to stay in like. You may love a person but if one is unkind to another the love evaporates. Continue reading

Whenever you doubt yourself or your ability to achieve your goal read up on the subject.  They say it takes having read at least 10 books to become an expert.  Experts are some of the most confident people around.  Get… Continue reading

The words ‘I love you” mean so much more when the person who utters those words continually shows their love.  Otherwise, it’s like pouring your best bottle of wine down the drain. Continue reading

Stop making excuses for why you cannot get this or that done. Stop blaming other people for why you cannot achieve results.  It’s a hampster wheel that never stops.  Get off it. Continue reading

Waiting for someone to save you is like waiting for rain for your garden.  You can see the rain clouds and the ominous sky, hear the thunder, feel a few drops of water but the rain never comes. It never… Continue reading

It’s no one’s job/responsibility to care about or for you.  Care about yourself. Support yourself. Worry about yourself.  Encourage yourself.  You have the power to succeed.  Don’t wait for other’s to support you.  You can do it for yourself. Continue reading

“I’m constantly amazed by how easily we love ourselves above all others, yet we put more stock in the opinions of others than in our own estimation of self. . . . How much credence we give to the opinions… Continue reading

“The greatest victory is that which requires no battle.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War Continue reading

You really do not require glasses to see: when your heart is giving you the answer, when your mind is clear, when your spirit knows the truth, and when you are trying to convince yourself that you are wrong. Continue reading