When you realize what a person is capable of, ignore their guilt trips. It’s only used to lull you back into feeling sorry for them so that they can gain an advantage over you. So, choose your happiness and your sanity over theirs. Allow to happen to them the things that they would do to you. It’s not your job to save them from themselves. Especially, when you realize that they would abuse you if they could. Be strong! Be encouraged! Don’t give in! Move on to something more positive.