You may find a couple of people during a lifetime who genuinely care about YOUR well-being. But, it’s up to you to make yourself a priority. Put your own name at the top of your “To Do List” and take care of your basic needs (e.g., get a hair appointment, take a brisk 30 minute walk, get a manicure/pedicure, and a new but affordable wardrobe item, and pay in cash).