YOU TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU. If someone is yelling at you and you stand there and take it or stay on the phone and listen you are saying its okay to treat me this way. That horrible person will just continue to be horrible to you and they will become increasingly horrible. You will just become their punching bag. So, start to walk away, hang up the phone, and block the email addresses of abusive people. If you choose to be happy you must choose to erase these types of people from your inner circle. Happiness and abuse cannot coexist. They just can’t!