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  • The Shame

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  • Plans Downfall

    So, I booked a flight about 6 weeks ago to depart this evening. My plan was to fly into another city and finalize some business which includes an arbitration hearing (not fun).  After reading the news headlines regarding the impending… Continue reading

  • Write it Down

    “Whatever you remember you forget.  Whatever you write down you remember” Pavel Goia Continue reading

    Write it Down
  • Mental Health Resolution for 2015

    Don’t deny how you feel. Continue reading

  • Tuning IN While Tuning OUT

    Part of the choice to be happy is to take a lesson from some of the most selfish people that you’ve ever met. I’ve experienced folks so full of themselves that they don’t even listen when you speak with them.… Continue reading

  • Excuses

    So the choice becomes to choose to delay gratification or to continue with the status quo.  If doing the same thing makes you happy then continue in that same vein. If you are unhappy with your current state of affairs… Continue reading

  • Dependence on Others

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  • You are the Boss

    You may find a couple of people during a lifetime who genuinely care about YOUR well-being.  But, it’s up to you to make yourself a priority.  Put your own name at the top of your “To Do List” and take… Continue reading

  • It’s a Choice

    So now that we’ve chosen to live a happy life do we go around putting everyone who offends us in their place? Absolutely not. We must be as wise as serpents and harmless as doves. Choosing to be happy is… Continue reading

  • Self-Preservation Means to Stay Away

    So, at the end of the day I must simply extricate myself from ALL situations and/or relationships that breed unhappiness. Simple? Not really because extricating oneself is where the real work comes in. Happiness must be fought for, it is… Continue reading